LGBTQIA+ Resources

The Human Rights Institute at Kean University hosted a focused discussion on LGBTQIA+ and Higher Education. The event took place on Wednesday, April 24th. It aimed to explore the state of LGBTQIA+ rights on college campuses, share best practices, and address ongoing disparities. The panel featured diverse voices from the academic community and advocacy sectors including Senator Lesniak, providing valuable insights into making higher education more inclusive for LGBTQIA+ individuals.

National Crisis Resources  

Crisis Text Line 

Crisis Text Line connects texters with trained volunteer Crisis Counselors to help resolve times of crisis. This service tries to match texters with Crisis Counselors who have shared lived experience

• Text ‘LGBTQ’ to 741-741

• Hours: Available 24/7

• Cost: Standard messaging rates apply

The Trevor Project 

The Trevor Project provides crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer & questioning young people under 25.

• TrevorLifeline

  • Phone: 1-866-488-7386

  • Hours: Available 24/7

  • Cost: Free

• TrevorText

  • Text the Word “Trevor” to 1-202-304-1200

  • Hours: Monday through Friday between 3pm to 10pm ET/ Noon- 7pm PT

  • Cost: Standard messaging rates apply

• TrevorChat: Online instant messaging with a TrevorChat counselor.

  • Enter the online portal on The Trevor Project’s Website

  • Hours: 7 days a week, 3pm to 10pm ET/ Noon – 7pm PT

  • Cost: Free

Trans Lifeline

Trans Lifeline is a nonprofit organization dedicated to the well being of transgender people. The hotline is staffed by transgender people for transgender people.

• Phone: 1-877-565-8860

• Hours: Every day of the week from 11am to 5am ET

• Cost: Free

Social Media to Follow

@lgbt_history

@lesbianherstoryarchives 

@queerbible

@visual_aids

@jazzjennings_

LGBTQ+ Teacher Resources

Accredited Schools Online

According to the National School Climate Report, 86 percent of LGBTQ youth reported being harassed at school, compared to 27 percent of students overall. School years can be challenging for all students, yet those who identify as LGBTQ often face additional pressures or concerns. Within this guide, LGBTQ students can find resources and information about support systems available to help them navigate both high school and college environments.

GLAAD

GLAAD rewrites the script for LGBTQ acceptance. As a dynamic media force, GLAAD tackles tough issues to shape the narrative and provoke dialogue that leads to cultural change. GLAAD protects all that has been accomplished and creates a world where everyone can live the life they love.

ACLU

There's a lot of information about schools issues for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, and questioning youth both on the ACLU's website and elsewhere on the web, but sometimes it can be difficult to find your way to the resources you need online. We've gathered some of the best information we have plus great stuff from other organizations and websites on this page to help you find things that can help you learn more about your rights and what you can do to make your school a safer, more welcoming place.

Welcoming Schools

HRC Foundation's Welcoming Schools is the nation's premier professional development program providing training and resources to elementary school educators to:

• Embrace All Families
• Create LGBTQ and Gender Inclusive Schools
• Prevent Bias-Based Bullying
• Support Transgender and Non-Binary Students

LGBTQ-Inclusive Lessons and Resources Come to New Jersey Public Schools

LGBTQ Inclusive education is more than celebrating one day, one person, or one event. For far more than a decade, national and state level professional educational organizations, equality focused advocacy groups, and educational leaders have called for more LGBTQ inclusion in public education. From teacher training (pre-service) to professional development, the impact of educators on the outcomes of their students has been a topic of study and increasing focus. With regards to gender, race and ethnicity, we know that seeing oneself positively contributes to greater likelihood of positive outcomes.

Transgender Addiction Resources: Sunshine Behavioral Health

An educational resource guide that discusses substance abuse and mental health in the transgender community. The transgender community has unique factors that can lead someone to drug or alcohol abuse. This guide discusses these issues and we also added a list of national hotlines and organizations for people to use if needed. 

A guide for Parents of Transgender Teens 

This post is designed to help parents with a transgender teen in the home. We’ll talk about what it means to be transgender, the struggles a transgender teen may face, and how to help a transgender teen navigate this time in their life.

GIRLS CAN KISS GIRLS BY JILL GUTOWITZ

Even before she was writing for publications like The New Yorker and Vanity Fair, writer Gutowitz was enthralled by pop culture. In her debut essay collection, she explores identity, desire and self-worth as they relate to the mainstreaming of lesbian culture. A blend of personal stories, sharp observations and whip-smart humor (like “An Exhaustive Explanation of Everything in Pop Culture That Is Undeniably Lesbian”), this timely collection seeks to help us make sense of our collective pop-culture past even as it points the way toward a very queer future.

THE WOMEN'S HOUSE OF DETENTION: A QUEER HISTORY OF A FORGOTTEN PRISON BY HUGH RYAN

When it stood in NYC’s Greenwich Village from 1929 to 1974, The Women’s House of Detention was a nexus for the tens of thousands of women, trans men and gender-nonconforming people who lived in its crowded cells. As he reports on the little-known lives of hundreds of incarcerated New Yorkers as well as some of the prison’s famous inmates like Angela Davis, historian Ryan dives deep into misogyny, racism, state-sanctioned sexual violence, colonialism, sex work and the failures of prison reform.

GREEDY: NOTES FROM A BISEXUAL WHO WANTS TOO MUCH BY JEN WINSTON

Jen Winston is bisexual…she thinks. Her whip-smart debut follows her attempts to make sense of herself as she explores the role of the male gaze, what it means to be "queer enough" and how to overcome bisexual stereotypes when you're the poster child for all of them. Drawing on personal experiences with sexism and biphobia, Greedy examines what it means to find stability in a state of flux and define yourself on your own terms.

EVERYONE IN THIS ROOM WILL SOMEDAY BE DEAD BY EMILY AUSTIN

Gilda is a 20-something, animal-loving lesbian atheist who can’t stop thinking about death. Desperate for relief from her panicky mind, she decides to go to free therapy at a local Catholic church. There, she’s greeted by Father Jeff, who assumes she's there for a job interview. Too embarrassed to correct him, Gilda is abruptly hired to replace the church’s recently deceased receptionist. From trying to memorize the lines to Catholic mass to hiding the fact that she has a new girlfriend, Gilda’s story is equal parts heartwarming and deadpan funny.

SOLO DANCE: A NOVEL BY LI KOTOMI

At 27, Cho Norie is working an office job in Tokyo. While her colleagues worry about the economy, marriage, and children, she's forced to keep her life—including her sexuality and the violent attack that prompted her move to Japan from Taiwan—hidden. Kotomi's debut novel (first published in Japanese in 2017 but just now translated for English readers) is an intimate and powerful account of a search for hope after trauma and coming to terms with what it's like to be a gay person in Taiwan and corporate Japan.

DON'T CRY FOR ME BY DANIEL BLACK

In this heartbreaking novel, a father tries to make amends with his gay son through letters written on his deathbed. As Jacob lies dying, he writes a letter to his only son, Isaac, who he hasn’t met or spoken to in many years. He writes about his ancestral legacy in rural Arkansas that extends back to slavery, secrets from Jacob's tumultuous relationship with Isaac's mother and the shame he carries from the dissolution of their family. Through it all, Black (They Tell Me of a Home) focuses on the lived experiences of Black fathers and queer sons and offers an authentic and ultimately hopeful portrait of reckoning and reconciliation.

WHAT WE DO IN THE DARK BY MICHELLE HART

A young woman has a life-altering affair with a much older married woman in this buzzy debut novel. The story follows Mallory, a freshman in college reeling from her mother's recent death, who begins sleeping with a stranger she meets at the gym in secret. Desiring not only the woman but also the idea of who she is when they're together, Mallory retreats from the rest of the world, solidifying a sense of aloneness that will haunt her for years even after the affair ends.

SEDARING ELAINE BY DAWN WINTER

In this dark comedy, Frances, a restaurant worker in London, is drowning her sorrows at a bar after a tough breakup when she meets the needy but well-meaning Elaine, and the two end up sleeping together. Faced with mounting pressure from her drug dealer, Frances asks Elaine to move in with her so she can use Elaine’s rent money to pay off her debt. Unfortunately, this seemingly romantic overture makes Elaine even more sex-crazed and head-over-heels in love. Frances fears she may never escape the relationship, so she decides to sedate Elaine…just until the debt is paid, at which point Frances can end the relationship. The plan, as you might imagine, goes horribly awry, and forces Frances to consider her past relationships in a new light.

KNOCKING MYSELF UP: A MEMOIR OF MY (IN)FERTILITY BY MICHELLE TEA

Author, poet, and literary arts organizer Michelle Tea knows there's no one right way to make a family. Her candid and irreverent memoir is about her route to parenthood as a 40-year-old queer, uninsured woman who, along the way, falls in love with a genderqueer partner a decade her junior, attempts biohacking herself a baby with underground fertility meds and eventually enters the "Fertility Industrial Complex" in order to carry a baby.

SO HAPPY FOR YOU BY CELIA LASKEY

This campy thriller follows a queer academic who is skeptical of elaborate wedding rituals, despite being asked to be her best friend’s maid of honor. As the wedding weekend approaches, a series of ominous occurrences lead her to second-guess her decision. Moreover, it seems that everyone in the bridal party is out to get her. Perhaps even the bride herself.

THE MEMORY LIBRARIAN BY JANELLE MONAE

Singer, actor and activist Janelle Monáe’s third studio album, Dirty Computer, was released in 2018 to widespread critical acclaim. The Grammy-nominated album introduced a world in which thoughts could be controlled or erased by a select few. In this collection of stories, Monáe—along with some of their closest collaborators—expands upon the Afrofuturistic world of the album, exploring time and memory, queerness, race, gender plurality, love and freedom.

YERBA BUENA BY NINA LACOUR

In this adult fiction debut by award-winning YA author LaCour (We Are Okay), Sara is a sought-after bartender at a glamorous restaurant in Los Angeles. Across the city, Emilie is in a holding pattern when she takes a job arranging flowers at the same restaurant. The morning Emilie and Sara first meet, their connection is immediate. But the damage both women carry, and the choices they have made, pulls them apart again and again. When Sara's old life catches up to her just as Emilie has finally gained her own sense of purpose, they’re forced to decide if their love is more powerful than their pasts.

ISLAND TIME BY GEORGIA CLARK

Queer romance, family secrets and ambition abound in this summery story of two families: the Kellys—loud, loving Australians—and the Lees—sophisticated, aloof Americans. The two clans have nothing in common, except for the fact that their daughters are married. While vacationing on a remote island off the coast of Queensland, a nearby volcano erupts and the families are stranded together for six weeks. During those weeks, everyone is forced to question what—or who—they really want, along the way proving it's never too late to change your destiny.

HAPPY-GO-LUCKY BY DAVID SEDARIS

After a diary collection and a best-of anthology, beloved memoirist Sedaris is back with a new book of personal essays. As in his previous best-selling essay collections, Happy-Go-Lucky chronicles Sedaris’s life, pulling from his daily interactions and observations of seemingly ordinary moments that instantly turn absurd, with commentary on the pandemic, his relationship with his father and more.

CENTER CENTER: A FUNNY, SEXY, SAD ALMOST-MEMOIR OF A BOY IN BALLET BY JAMES WHITESIDE

James Whiteside is an American Ballet Theatre principal dancer who's redefining what it means to be a man in ballet. His memoir in essays explains in absurd detail how he got to be a primo ballerina—including musings on the tragically fated childhood pets who taught him how to feel, ill-advised partying at summer dance camps and imagined fantastical run-ins with Jesus on Grindr. Overall, it’s an unapologetic celebration of queerness, self-expression, friendship, pushing boundaries and more.